Tuesday, March 18, 2008

New friendships

We get by with a little help
from our friends


One of the hardest things about leaving for a year was being separated from our good friends at home. But gradually we’ve made some friendships that are filling our lives with joy and already beginning to make us sad about leaving people behind yet again. Today we’d like to introduce you to some of our new friends . . . .

Anna has bridged the biggest language barrier to speak friendship fluently with her best buddy Jessica, a Polish-Portuguese girl who lives a few blocks away and is in Anna’s class. They love to dance and dress up together and babble away at each other so that I can’t tell who’s talking when.


Lara has a wild and crazy girl group that she hangs out with. Here are Verena (Chilean-German), Sophie (Turkish-German), and Lara (American-German) . . .

and here’s a pensive picture of Nuri (Egyptian-German).


These girls are always up to something and always seem to be having a great time. Right now they’re all applying to be accepted into high schools for their 7th grade years and enjoying their last carefree year of elementary school. (Have I mentioned how multi-cultural the kids' friends are? There's hardly a classmate who has two German parents!)

Hannes’s class at his sports school is very tight knit and he feels close to them all, but his best friend is Niko, a classmate and a basketball teammate. Niko’s parents are Polish, and he dreams of coming to America to play college basketball. I’ve got a soft spot in my heart for him because he likes my chocolate chip cookies!

Some of you may recognize the twins, Jasper and Mo, who spent a summer with us in Reedsport several years ago. They’ve come to stay with us several times this year, and Jasper will be coming again soon to do a two-week translation practicum with Jost. They continue to be among Hannes’s best brother buddies.












I had not really thought about making new friends this year—I knew we’d be catching up with old friends and investing in the children’s friendships. So the new friends Jost and I have made have been an unlooked-for and lovely surprise.

First among these were John and Hoi-ling, doctoral students of theology from Hong Kong who have just arrived in Berlin and are helping with the local Chinese church. Their professor was a classmate of Jost’s at the University of Hamburg. They come to our house on Mondays for dinner and German practice and fun fellowship (John does some mean card tricks!).


John and Hoi-ling invited us to a party at their church for the Chinese New Year. They had mentioned that there was a family of American missionaries working with their church, but when I walked in I was introduced to this man . . .

. . . Chuck "Chuckles" Rentz, my freshman college buddy from Seattle Pacific University 25 years ago! I think that’s the very definition of serendipity—or a divine appointment for renewing old friendships. We’ve had fun spending time with Chuck and his wife Jenny and their four children.

Each Wednesday since shortly before Christmas we’ve been going to a Bible study with a wonderful group of folks, all at least ten years younger and much cooler than Jost and me, but still they've welcomed and loved us! We eat together, sing together, study together, and have a great time. Here’s one of them, Sarah Kaiser, a jazz vocalist who comes over to play cards with us regularly.


And here’s Anna with the newest Bible study addition, baby Noah.


We feel so grateful for all these new (and old) friends who have filled our lives here with unexpected warmth and fun and fellowship.